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The 12 Steps for Sexual Compulsives

  1. We admitted we were powerless over our compulsive sexual behaviors - that our lives had become unmanageable.

  2. Came to believe that there was a power greater than ourselves and could restore us to sanity.

  3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to our Higher Power.

  4. With the help of our Higher Power, made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

  5. Admitted to our Higher Power, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

  6. Were entirely ready to have our Higher Power remove all these defects of character.

  7. Humbly asked our Higher Power to remove our shortcomings.

  8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.

  9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

  10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

  11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our relationship with our Higher Power and praying for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry out His will.

  12. Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other sex addicts and to practice these principles in our lives. (Adapted from AA Services Inc.)